Vivienne Reconnects With a Friend

 


This last weekend, I went to meet up with a friend who I hadn't seen in probably six years. I was super nervous, because when we parted ways, it wasn't on the best terms. My memory of all that is unfortunately fuzzy (thanks, Depression), but another friend was on my mind a lot this year, and in talking to my sister about it, we also brought up this friend. Remy encouraged me to reach out, and so I did! 

We got back in touch, and it was interesting. When we met up, he had a subdued energy to him, and I could tell we were both nervous, but as we caught each other up on the last several years, we both opened up more, and his energy returned. It was really nice to be able to reconnect with him, and now I might get a bonus friend! I'm hoping to meet his girlfriend soon, and I'm really excited! Nervousness is still there, but that's much subdued, thankfully. Sometimes you just have to do the thing, and it works out! Even when it's scary.

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